Doubtfully Yours

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  My wife has joined me in leaving the Watchtower!!!

  by AlmostAtheist in

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  i had posted a few times since my awakening asking how best to talk to my wife about my new take on things.

  i was very afraid of handilng it poorly and chasing her deeper into the organization.

  instead, she basically said, 'i've been feeling the same way!

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  Doubtfully Yours

  Making it out of the WBTS is quite the journey for a couple.

  Find as many things in common as possible. Now that there will be a new set of values and perspectives, get to know one another all over again.

  Best wishes.

  DY
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  Other Than D'Fing or Disassociating, How Did You Get JWs To Leave U Alone?

  by minimus in

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  how do you keep them from bothering you?

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  Doubtfully Yours

  The smart, faithful JWs already understood that I'm a JW in name only, and only interested in keeping the lines of communication open with my folks.

  When I happen to attend the random meeting, I ignore just about everybody else in the congregation, just polite to them as I would be to any unknown person in the street.

  Add to that the fact of me being very vocal about stuff that I don't agree with the WBTS. Believe me, they stay clear away from me as most consider me rebellious, borderline apostate.

  DY
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  Angels defeat the Yanks - going to the ALCS.....

  by AK - Jeff in

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  beat 'em 5 to 3.. go angels!!!.

  jeff

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  Doubtfully Yours

  My Boston Red Sox are out, my Yankees are out, my Chicago Cubs are out....

  As far as I'm concerned, MLB is over for me.

  DY
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  Since you left Jehovahs................................

  by defd in

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  organization and the faith.

  what hope do yall entertain for the future....the everlasting future?

  do you still believe, want to be on a paradise earth or what?

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  Doubtfully Yours

  The older I get, the more I'm convinced that this is it. Therefore, I try to make it worthwhile each day I wake up.

  DY
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  Is baptism a contract with God or with the Watchtower org?

  by JH in

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  getting baptized should be between you and god, and the watchtower should bud out of your personal relationship with god, right?

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  Doubtfully Yours

  Baptism inside the WBTS is a contract with the WBTS, not God.

  DY
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  How do you defend your god's inaction?

  by AlmostAtheist in

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  this is a question for those that believe in a god or gods, particularly those described as "all knowing" or "almighty".. how do you defend to yourself that your god has not in any modern situation saved his people from anything?.

  people of all faiths are regularly killed by various natural elements.

  of course, if you knew such a thing was going to befall a person and you could do something to protect them, you would.

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  Doubtfully Yours

  God's lack of action is infuriating to me.

  How can I possibly bring myself to worship a God that has the power to make all human suffering cease and yet chooses to do NOT A GD MFING THING ABOUT IT???!!!

  DY
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  Earthquakes in one place after another

  by free2beme in

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  i realize that in the 1990's, the witnesses changed their view on this thought of "earthquakes in one place after another" to be more figurative and not literal.

  yet most active witnesses still see them as signs of the end.

  i did when i was younger and something occurred to me today as i watched the news from pakistan.. did anyone ever have witnesses that expanded beyond the warning of this natural disaster (earthquakes) to include all natural disasters?

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  Doubtfully Yours

  Natural disasters is nothing more than nature's way of population control.

  DY
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  The real reason why young people get baptized

  by free2beme in

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  the real reason why young people get baptized .... to make their parents happy and proud.

  to be able to get married (which is some cases, is to get away from parents).

  ... okay, okay, i know it depends on how young we are talking.

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  Doubtfully Yours

  Here's one that did it to make her parents happy and proud.

  What a mistake!!!!!!!!!!!!

  DY
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  astrology and compatibility with your mate....a grain of truth???

  by kid-A in

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  let me start off by saying i dont believe in astrology and most certainly not horoscopes.

  having said that, i have often considered the real possibility that the time and season of the year we are born in can dramatically influence our pre-natal development and the resulting personality, i dont think this has anything to do with "stars" or cosmology, but we do know that babies born in certain seasons or months are more prone to certain illnesses, temperaments etc.. i'm an aries and had a really lousy relationship with a "cancer" for many years.

  she always pointed out that all of the compatibility charts state that aries and cancers are fundamentally incompatible and it turned out....she was right!!

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  Doubtfully Yours

  According to the match of our astrology signs, my husband and I have a very little chance at surviving as man and wife in the long run.

  So far, this is not true whatsoever. Doing very well in our relationship thus far.

  DY
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  JW's and Divorce

  by Dimples in

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  wow, seems like lots of jw's are getting divorced these days.

  since i left the jw's 51/2 years ago i know of at least 5 couples that attended the congregation that i went to, who are now divorced.

  is this getting more common where you are?

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  Doubtfully Yours

  Women/men of this generation put up with much less crap than the prior JW generation of women/men.

  DY